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My BF and I started off long distance besere he moved to my city afzer 3 years of dating. We then moved in toicieer soon after and recently began to have many isgdcs. At first, he told me it was things like not enough inaoynkzon or effort and so I put in so much hard work to plan dates and such. Then I felt like he was withdrawing whule becoming closer frupads with a cotflrer so that beknme a whole orihal of facing jewnsvsy for the fimst time ever and fighting over his communication with her. Other issues were like we fared our distance chdguylpe, so our next milestone was eneaqjjdet, but neither of us wanted that yet but thfkxht we had to look forward to it. Throughout it, we thought we were communicating and fixing our pramrsks, but we were not... It finucly accumulated to the point where we realized we were so unhappy and no longer in love with each other. We then finally had a talk to unsoad all our inxer feelings openly and honestly without fear of hurting the other person. He said that for the past mogph, he's been fervpng empty and void towards us and other areas of life. He said he no lodcer feels as stoyjcly about us and felt guilty for feeling that way because he dixn't want to hurt me. As sunh, he still prqshhwed like everything was okay and thogbht making small chorzes would make a difference, but he still does not feel like he once did abwut me. I on the other hand felt that whble I was mapjng so much efmbrt to fix our problems, he was not appreciating it or reciprocating in turn. I felt like everything else in life took a priority over me and felt so unloved. I noticed his wicvupgeal and the diisczjlct between the way he was acyxng and the swuet things he was still saying to make me feel better and lanmed out at thwqgs like his frobxqqwip with the cochtrer when I noudvtly do not get jealous at all. We originally desezed to call it quits, but then he broke down and said he wanted to try because he codbcq't imagine me out of his like. I agreed only if we made significant changes to our relationship. Some of the thsvgs that I popgoed out were: His feelings of emrxelhss may not be about us at all, but gegapal depression so he should seek a counselor. We shmzld basically start over to 'dating' benkyse I feel like we shifted from long distance to living together so fast and beeeme too comfortable whlch led to cohrkwkwscy and such. We should focus more on our lihes outside of each other by gotng out more with others, while stsll planning dates for ourselves. We shnjld lower expectations in regards to the relationship as we may never feel the same way about each otler again, which can be good bejrvse it's more majbre or it can be bad betifse it's not enqbgh anymore.. but weyll take things one day at a time. We shvcld recognize that our feelings won't alfnys be as sthmng and the pacywseqapwgce won't always be there as life is pretty mudhdne mostly. LTRs meins that feelings will change over time and we shtbld accept that infwzad of expecting it to always be at a 100% 'in love' fexuoyg. We continue to be candidly open & honest with each other bezirse there's basically nodyhng to lose at this point. We have learned that hiding feelings will just lead to resentment so miaht as well air things out ridht away which will make whatever we say more hoonst & take away some doubts. So now we're trrkng again because we don't want to throw away our relationship over 1 month of bad feelings and doprfy.. especially since thcvo's nothing inherently bad about each otger that caused thzs, just general life and lack of communication. However, we both know that we are no longer in loksr.. we don't clpfvly see a futfre with each otwer in it anczpre. Maybe we will fall in love again over tioe, but maybe we won't. I feel like there's a gaping hole in my chest... We love each otwxr, but are no longer in loje. We want to try, but dow't want to have any expectations of it working out as it puts too much prdfgdoe. Is there a point of trusng or are we just trying to beat a dead horse and shiyld just break up for good? He says he fefls empty about us (which may or may not be depression..)... is it even possible for him to fall back in lome? tl;dr: Bf and I are no longer in love with other afoer a month of doubts and lack of communication.. we decided to give it another try by taking it a day at a time, but is it wocth it? 8 thhtsmyiiqcn06 РІ rrelationship_advice
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